Personal gift
An apology gift they have to open first
Say it in a way words alone can't. Pick a design, add your own words, and send a small animated gift — no app for them to open, just a link.
Create an apology giftA long apology text stops being an apology around the third paragraph and starts being a defence. Sending something they have to open changes the shape of it — they do something first, and your words arrive after the annoyance has dropped a notch.
The cup game is what people use for this: three cups, a shuffle, and whichever one they pick, the card underneath says the answer you chose.
1 way to send an apology gift
Cup guessing game
Three cups, one answer. Shuffle and pick — they'll always land on the one you want.
How sending an apology gift works
- 1Pick a design — each one is a small scene they open and play with.
- 2Add your own words, names and photos. Nothing is required except the bits that make it theirs.
- 3Get a private link and send it. It opens in any browser, on any phone.
Making an apology gift land
- Put the question on the cups — "Will you forgive me?", with YES under all three
- Send it on its own — no accompanying essay
- Follow it with the real apology — what you did, why it hurt, what changes. No "but"
- Read the room — if they're hurt rather than annoyed, send the words first and the game later
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It's free, it takes about five minutes, and there's no account on either end.
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